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  • Do you ever act contrary to your values? The cause is blame. See if any of these statements are true for you. If you can’t find any, ask your spouse, kids, employees/boss or friends for help. ;)  The Process of Blame:   1. You are aware of your shortcomings but do not increase your self-acceptance. You might think, "I will accept myself only when I change.” 2. You are self-c...

  • It is by going down into the abyss that we recover the treasures of life. Where you stumble,  there lies your treasure. The very cave you are afraid to enter turns out to be the source of what you are looking for. (1991, Reflections on the Art of Living: A Joseph Campbell Companion, Selected and edited by Diane K. Osbon.)  Human beings throughout recorded history h...

  • If your intention is focused on proving yourself it indicates you have a limiting belief. A desire to prove yourself may indicate you don’t believe that you are enough. It might mean that you have a need to be superior or special. Proving yourself may be expressed with an attitude of superiority, defensiveness or a thought process of comparing yourself to others. Proving yourself never results in ...

  • Being able to say what you really want to say requires more than just speaking up. Your voice is only half of the formula necessary to communicate in difficult situations. The other half is vulnerability. Vulnerability when expressed is strength. Vulnerability requires an open heart which really means allowing your feelings instead of stopping them. Allowing your feelings does not mean you have to...

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